You shouldn't shut someone completely.

I know there's no reason for me to write this at all - heck, it's not even my problem - but it's just one of those days you would want to write about something when you know that somethin is not right.

This could last only for awhile and just disappear like nothing's happened, but I can't help but feel.

My sister has been hanging around with her a lot. It's crazy, but I know she's found - both of them found - someone to lean on. It is sweet, but in some ways bends many rules that we played all this while. The people around, just became suspicious. Then I see changes evolve around the friendship status (added with insecurity), but I guess it is worth it. They were pretty happy with each other and she became closer to me, to us as a family.

But just the day before at late hour, my sister started not talking at all. Not to me, not to her - especially not to her. She shut herself in silence and went off to bed without any sort of notice. Because of this, the visitor would feel left out, right? And I feel that's totally wrong.

The same thing happened the next day when we were picking up my brother from the airport. Well, the whole day actually. Not a word. Just silence. When someone urges, no answer came out from my sister. There must be something going on, something big perhaps - but it shouldn't lead to this. She tried to cheer my sister up and she refused.

All I am saying is, that it is totally unfair to her, the way my sister is treating her. She stays overnight and to shut her in her loneliness - let alone leave her completely - that's just selfish and unfair. Sure we dealt with problems, we all have problems don't we? But that's just too selfish. Taken things too far. Jeopardise others and your relationship. But what could you do? At least be considerate. I know it's hard but you shouldn't just leave and let alone, you know? It's cruel.

She hung out with me most of the time, which I am perfectly fine with because she is my best friend too after all - almost like a sister to be frank. But usually she would play with the both of us.